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opening too many credit cards has ruined my finances

SSV

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im hesitant to do that since i moved out of their place and now live alone. :(
Another fact:

Credit Cards are like Committed relationships... They are not like casual relationships / one n*ght stands...
No breakups are allowed in these relationships..
.. If you do break up abruprtly, you have to pay the hefty price for which the impact may last for quite a long time...
 
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SSV

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I can't digest ki op vacation m itne bade payments bhul gaya that too when he has no income to pay off that
This is the irony here... and he knows exactly what he is doing... I don't think anyone's advices matter here..
The decisions and actions have to come from within himself ..
.
He is 23 now... and he has been playing this game for 4 years..
He is no novice ... He is close to be called as a seasoned player ..in this game ....
 

SSV

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Everyone makes mistake.
Let it be

Anyone in this community does things with their own consciousness.. ..
He is in dair situation of helplessness.
Pardon him 👍
I understand this... but this realisation has to come from him.. and I am stating the facts...
I have no negaive feelings for him... In fact I want to help him... as well...
HELP will only work and last long when
1) When the person owns his acts and accpept the facts.
2) Genuienley remorses and takes proepr actions ...

All this journey has to start from "accepting the facts" , means living in reality..
Unlese these things come from the person involved , no amount of help from others can really help him/ her.

Speaking from various experiences in my life.
I had lost more than 50L and several years of my valuable life just from helping others , not realising these fundamental facts at that time.. ie. the change has to come from whithin the person invloved...
 
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doraemon

TF Legend
Op
Conclusion here is
Only your parents can help you in this matter
No matter what others are saying.
As we don't know your financial status
You should speak to your parents or you can take it as loan from parents which u should and must pay back to them after you settle and start getting income


U will get many advices here or in other places
Trust me best one is telling your parents as u are just 23


Rotation is in no sense a source of income
And people doing that are either students looking to meet their expense like me
Or some others who thinks it's income source while it's not
And should be stopped

And for time being stop using your cards
And focus on job findings
And make sure to spent less time here
Reason I am saying is
There are lots of tempting offer deals and tricks
Which force you directly/indirectly to fall for



Hope it will help you
 
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