For Mahila Shakti - both holders can get it as per my knowledge
For Advantage you need to first convert it to super savings account variant then you can request RSDC for both holders
Also going forward kindly check if an existing thread already addresses your query or consider posting it in the comments section of any top RSDC related threads in TF before creating a new thread altogether.
One thread that you can follow is -
https://www.technofino.in/community/threads/rupay-select-debit-card-portfolio.36290/
Cheers!